Talking to God after a Rape or Assault

Oct 23 – One in Four

Where do I begin on an issue as serious as all this?  How does a conversation for faith beginners and curious seekers address one of the greatest hurts a person can know?

Rape.  Sexual Assault.  They have become far too common in this world of ours.  In the grand scheme of things, I suppose it would be easy to rejoice that the numbers of these attacks have been declining – which is certainly something to be thankful for – but that doesn’t make what happens any less real or less painful for the people who go through it.

There are so many things in this life that make it easy to ask that burning question of God – “Why?”  It makes sense to ask, I suppose, doesn’t it?  But I don’t know the answer.  I wish there was a simple one.  God never promised us an easy life.  In fact, He said that we “will have trouble” (John 16:33).  It can be so tempting to turn our backs on God when tragedy strikes, but I encourage you instead to tell Him about it.  Talk to Him about your frustrations.  Share with Him your questions and your anger.  Yell at Him if you need to or cry.  Take a look at the book of Psalms.  The whole book is people expressing their emotions to God.  The authors write things like “How long, Lord?  Will you forget me forever?”  “Why do You hide yourself in times of trouble?”  Tell God your hurts and lean on Him as your strength.

Jesus does say that “In this world, you will have trouble” but in the same verse, He says, “Take heart!  I have overcome the world.”

I pray that verses like the ones from yesterday and perhaps the ones found in Lamentations 3:21-33 will be an encouragement to you.  If you have never told anyone about the way you were hurt, let someone know, whether it’s a parent, friend, or other trusted adult.  I pray your comfort and your healing and your ability to still trust in and rely on God.

*If you have been the victim of a sexual assault and would like to seek additional support, please visit RAINN.